In the USA through the years, it has been said that allowing women to vote is the cause of breakdown in the family structure. It has been said that taking pray out of schools is the cause of breakdown in the family structure. It has been said that allowing women to work along-side men is the cause of breakdown in the family structure. It has been said that allowing gays to marry is the cause of breakdown in the family structure. By spending so much time pointing a finger externally, you fail to see that you are responsible for any breakdown in your family structure.
Take responsibility for your life. It is never too late to create something new.